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On my wedding night. With my brand new wife. The church gave us so many reasons why we should have waited. The problem was that it told us nothing about what to do when we got there. So 5 hours before the wedding ceremony 2 friends took me out for a drink.
Growing up in a Christian home, I was raised to view my virginity as almost as important as my salvation. I took those warnings to heart. It's difficult to understand if you didn't grow up in the church, but the focus on purity before marriage is so pervasive in many Christian circles that I didn't even question it.
I got married at 30 years old. Until that night, I was a virgin. Was it something I had to hide? Sort of.