I was one of the founders of OkCupid , a dating website that, over a very unbubbly long haul of 10 years, has become one of the largest in the world. I started it with three friends. We were all mathematically minded, and the site succeeded in large part because we applied that mindset to dating. Playing with the numbers helps us run our site. But as people bring technology deeper and deeper into their lives, it can show us profound and ridiculous things about who we are as human beings. Here are just a few examples.
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The 30 to 20 female to male relationship is quite an interesting one. Nobody bats an eyelash when they see you out in public. But, a woman in her thirties is just on the cusp of being too old for a year-old man. Just there. Especially since women mature much quicker than men so, a woman who is technically just five or eight years older than a man is more like 10 to 15 years older—mentally. But hey, men date younger all of the time and for good reason. There are a lot of benefits to dating someone a bit younger.
If OkCupid is to be believed, the common trope about men being primarily attracted to younger women is no stereotype. In fact, more than half of the straight conversations on OkCupid are between men and women who are younger than them. Yet for some men, the allure of the elusive recent college grad is lost. Older women are more emotionally mature and self-confident, more steady and successful in their careers, more worldly and chill about the nature of the relationship, these men say. It started when I was in college.
I believe you will regret the marriage and will wish you had listened to your parents. They probably know better than you on this. You are not honoring God to not honor your parents. There is more than an age factor here, your parents have disapproved. You do not honor God to not honor your parents.